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How Does SHE Leads Group Differ from BNI-Style or Traditional Leads Groups?

Why This Question Comes Up

It’s common for women exploring business networking to ask, “Is SHE Leads Group like a women’s BNI?” or “I’ve been in a BNI, so SHE Leads Group is like that, right?”

Those are great questions, because while SHE Leads Group shares some structural similarities with other business referral networking groups, the experience, culture, and format are uniquely designed to support women entrepreneurs.

Our goal is not to compete with or imitate other organizations, it’s to provide a refreshing alternative for women who want both results and relationships.

A Meeting Format Designed for Women Entrepreneurs

Many traditional leads groups meet weekly and focus primarily on referral counts. SHE Leads Group was created to meet women where they are, busy running businesses and caring for families, while still offering consistency and connection.

We meet twice a month, allowing members to stay actively engaged without feeling overwhelmed. Each meeting includes:

  • A 10-minute member spotlight on a rotating basis, giving every member the opportunity to showcase her expertise.

  • A 20- to 30-minute business development training or connection activity, so members walk away with new insights or stronger relationships.

  • A one-minute commercial for each member and a two-minute introduction for first-time guests, so visitors feel valued and heard, not rushed.

This structure keeps meetings productive, interactive, and relationship-focused.

Accountability with Flexibility

While attendance is vital for building trust and visibility, SHE Leads Group understands that life and business sometimes intersect unexpectedly.
Members are allowed two excused absences within a rolling three-month period, balancing accountability with real-world flexibility.
We want women to feel supported, not pressured, because true connection happens when members want to show up, not when they have to.

A Curated Community of Quality Women

SHE Leads Group is intentionally not a pay-to-play organization. Every member is vetted to ensure alignment with our values of integrity, reliability, and collaboration.

  • Business category exclusivity is honored, meaning no overlap in members’ primary business functions within a chapter.

  • Typical chapter sizes range from 10 to 20 top-quality women, creating an atmosphere where genuine relationships thrive.

  • Our culture is warm, supportive, and inclusive, with active participation encouraged from everyone in attendance.

This approach builds strong, trusted circles of women who truly understand one another’s businesses and goals.

More Than Just Networking, Education and Growth

What makes SHE Leads Group stand out is its commitment to ongoing professional development and cross-chapter connection.

Each chapter meeting includes either a training segment or an interactive activity that helps members grow both personally and professionally.
Members also gain access to a variety of master classes and networking events across all chapters, further enhancing visibility and collaboration beyond their home group.

This unique blended model provides both the depth of a leads group and the breadth of a networking community, all under one high-value, not high-priced membership.

A Culture That Encourages Connection

SHE Leads Group meetings are interactive, encouraging, and empowering. Guests are greeted warmly, members engage meaningfully, and conversations are focused on building lasting relationships, not simply exchanging referrals.

The atmosphere is intentionally designed to help women feel comfortable, confident, and inspired. Members often say they walk away from meetings with not only new connections, but renewed motivation and practical business takeaways.

Final Thoughts

If you’ve ever been part of a traditional leads group or a BNI-style networking meeting, when you visit us, you’ll immediately feel the difference at SHE Leads Group.

We combine structure with support, accountability with flexibility, and training with genuine community. It’s an environment where women can learn, connect, and grow their businesses through authentic relationships.

Be our guest at a chapter meeting that has your business category open, or start your own chapter.

About the author

Beth Boen, SHE Leads Group Founder

Beth Boen has more than 40 years of experience in sales, marketing and customer service. She is an award-winning marketer. She is also a professional trainer and customer experience consultant. Beth loves helping people build long-term, loyal relationships that produce quality connections in their business that lead to lifetime customers and endless referrals. Beth helps people do this through her thoughtful blogs and training curriculum. Members of SHE Leads Group have access to more in-depth business development training through presentations at meetings from Beth, her curriculum, and guest trainers. Learn more about Beth.

What does SHE stand for?

SHE is more than a leads group - SHE Leads Group exists to support women in business development roles. SHE Members are women in business who appreciate the role many women have being a full-time caregiver to loved ones and advancing their full-time career or business. The letters “S H E” stand for Supporting Heart & Enterprise ®. Heart is our families, or anything near and dear and personal to us. Enterprise is our business or career. Members are expected to uphold the values and culture for which SHE stands. Every member of SHE Leads Group should desire to be a resource to each other. SHE Leads Group is more than just a leads group. We are a group of supportive women who truly want to help others in any way possible.

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